PERSONAL AND LIFE COACHING:
Are you now looking to move forward in your life?
You maybe looking at this page just because its part of my website, and if that is so just for now…can I just say…thank you! for taking the time to browse my wesbsite and that you are very welcome here.
Where I practice:
My assumptions based on my world?
So, as I do not know anything about you right now outside of you are browsing my website because you are here; I may have to make some assumptions. Maybe you have already worked through a number of issues with either a healthcare professional or just done some self-help work. Maybe you are experiencing life difficulties and you are starting to recognise patterns forming, maybe negative, with some positives, that are stopping you moving forward. Maybe you feel you are getting to a certain stage in your life, only to find yourself going in circles. These are just assumptions based on “my world”…however, if you are looking to give yourself the gift of some professional help to move forward in life; to get to where you feel you ought to be, then we would need to focus on your world; in order to move towards change for a better life for you, where you understand yourself better, the world you live in and thus the people in it.
Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP)…What is it?
In summary… Neuro; is your nervous system…(the mind)… through which your experience is processed.
Linguistic; communication to yourself and others. Programming; the way you are wired.
Your symptoms… your solutions:
… whatever your reasons are for searching my profile, they will probably be unique to your understanding of the world, and yourself within it, where you may feel you are going in circles and getting nowhere. One NLP belief is…”there is no failure; only feedback”.
… maybe you are noticing behaviours repeating, again and again, and as much as you try and behave differently, you seem to be stuck with the behaviour you are trying to change. Another NLP belief is… “People are not their behaviours…accept the person, change the behaviour”.
… maybe you have tried to make changes, only to find that you have become distracted, or diverted, digressed, or whatever. Another NLP belief is…“People have all the resources they need to succeed and achieve their desired outcomes”!.
… maybe you feel misunderstood in the world that you live, and that the world misunderstands you. Another NLP belief is… “The meaning of the communication is the response you get”.
… maybe you feel you are doing your best already and question what NLP can offer you. Another NLP belief is… “Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources they have available”.
… maybe you believe that the world has not been kind to you in the past and therefore feel disempowered to make changes. Another NLP belief is… “We are in charge of our minds and therefore our results”.
The above is just some NLP beliefs, however, there is far more to NLP than beliefs.
Sub-modalities & filters:
For example, would you say you are a visual person, an auditory person, or a feeling person. Well, in fact, you probably will have formed your strengths in these areas at different levels, based on your experience which are then internalised, and underpinned with more experience of what you expect to experience, rather than with flexible thinking internalise what could be different, to help you to achieve the changes you want to make for a better understanding of the world, and more so, yourself within it.
As a qualified experienced Counsellor I am able to underpin NLP techniques with person centred counselling (sometimes called humanistic) where the focus is on your world, and you within it. Humanistic counselling (Rogerian) creates the ideal setting to focus on you!!! the individual and your!!! world, where you will feel understood and connected, without judgement within what is known as the CORE conditions. There is no right…and there is no wrong remember… “There is no failure; only feedback”.
Qualified experience integrative counsellor:
Humanistic Counselling by its very own nature allows you to explore yourself in the right environment once the trust and rapport is in place and find your own solutions. Remember… “People have all the resources they need to succeed and achieve their desired outcomes”.
As a qualified experienced integrative counsellor I am well placed to help you with any deeper underlying issues that may arise. As an integrative counsellor I combine three talk therapies; Humanistic (Person Centred) as above, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Psychodynamic.
Person Centred focusses on the person (individual). Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focusses on thoughts, feelings and behaviour and negative patterns. Psychodynamic focusses on how the past may be effecting the here and now.
Counselling is communicating at a conscious level whereas Hypnotherapy focusses more on your subconscious and unconscious. For more information about counselling please feel free to visit my counselling profile – link at the bottom of this page.
Qualified experienced Counsellor, Hypnotherapist & NLP Practitioner:
Hypnotherapy and counselling works with your conscious, subconscious and unconscious mind. Your conscious mind is everything you know and can access easily and your subconscious and unconscious mind controls parts of you naturally such as your breathing, body language and more. Hypnotherapy and counselling works well with NLP because your personal world will be influenced by your conscious, subconscious and unconscious mind. For more information about hypnotherapy please feel free to visit my hypnotherapy profile – link at the bottom of the page. For more information about counselling please feel free to visit my counselling profile – link at the bottom of the page.
In summary, working with an NLP approach with a qualified NLP Practitioner, will help you to get to know yourself and develop and enhance your self awareness, social awareness, self management and relationship management. More comprehensively, working with an NLP Practitioner, with the flexibility to work on issues within a counselling therapeutic arrangement, or a hypnotherapy arrangement, will give you a greater scope to access a much larger tool box to help you to reach your goals and desires.
If you are still interested in knowing more about how NLP, and how it can work integratively or working solely NLP please feel free to call me on 07950 906421 for your personal free consultation to discuss your personal pathway forward in my opinion.
See below some pictures of my practice. My practice is situated within the Green Chain Walk. It is, I feel, an extra to the service I offer. Coaching, counselling, hypnotherapy and any kind of therapy in my opinion requires a confidential, peaceful, environment. Cont…/d below…
….I work within a very therapeutic setting where it is calm and therapeutic within its own right, where there is running water and wildlife; where it is very quiet. The grounds are beautiful is the feedback I receive.
You can see my practise on my website with more information about how I work (as noted at the top of this profile page). Or call me, or text me, on 07950 906421, and I will be delighted to hear from you. If I am not available to take your call then leave me a message I will call you back.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Training, qualifications & experience
NHS Patient Advocate & GMB NHS Union Work representative.
NHS Mental health services.
NHS General Practice Management.
Private long term, and short term, counselling.
NHS General Practice, Short-term, counselling.
Private long term & short term counselling & hypnotherapy.
Bromley Behavioural Unit (primary schools) counselling.
My qualifications and training:
- PRACTITIONER CERTIFICATION IN NEURO-LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING
- HIGHER NATIONAL DIPLOMA IN COUNSELLING
- DIPLOMA IN HYPNOTHERAPY
- Bereavement Specialist
- Working with Common Tensions in Relationships
- Fertile Body Method Practitioner Specialist
- Healthy Weight Control with Hypnotherapy Specialist
- Hypno-Band Weight Loss System Licensed Practitioner Specialist
- Stop Smoking with Hypnotherapy Specialist
I am an understanding, empathic, focussed towards, qualified NLP Coach, Counsellor and Hypnotherapist.
I have up-to-date enhanced CRB clearance 2013.
I maintain continued professional development training in Counselling & Hypnotherapy.
I have full professional indemnity insurance.
I undergo regular monthly professional supervision as stipulated by my governing bodies.
HDip & BACP
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PROFESSIONAL PRE-INITIAL ASSESSMENT:
FREE OF CHARGE
PERSONAL NLP COACHING FOR LIFE DIRECTION, WORKING WITH YOUR PERSONAL BLUE PRINT, LOOKING AT WHERE YOU ARE NOW, AND WHERE YOU WANT TO BE.
– £70.00 per session (60 minutes) or £85 (75 minutes).
HYPNOTHERAPY FOR ANXIETY, PHOBIAS, FEARS, CONFIDENCE BUILDING:
– £85.00 including complimentary CD of the personalised recording where appropriate (up to 90 minutes).
STOP SMOKING IN ONE TWO HOUR SESSION:
– £195.00. (approximately 2 hours).
HYPNOBAND OVER SIX SESSIONS: – £85.00 per (pay as you go), including complimentary CD of your personalised session where appropriate (up to 90 minutes per session).
WEIGHT LOSS AND MANAGEMENT:
– £85.00 per session including a complimentary CD of your personalised session where appropriate (up to 90 minutes per session).
Please feel free to start the journey of change and text me on 07950 906421 to arrange a FREE OF CHARGE pre-initial assessment. Alternatively you can e-mail me on firstname.lastname@example.org.
There will be absolutely no obligation – I will be delighted to hear from you, discuss the main issues, get to know you a little bit (and you me), and then feed back to you my thoughts and discuss with you your way forward.
I look forward to hearing from you.
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